Boyfriend likes painful anal sex

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You have to have foreplay, work up to it.

Is it normal that my boyfriend like seeing me in pain?

It's a mental disorder. He however was still turned when it obviously didn't feel good and I told him so. No he knew I was in pain, I asked him to slow down because of it, which he did but then he said it would soon be better and went on as before. If you're not into it, there's no way to make you understand why it turns some people on. The better you connect the better it will be. Will a "bit of pain" remain enough pain for him to get excited? Isn't there something wrong with you then?