For men and women alike, the act of giving oral sex can actually create sensations throughout her body that will enhance and increase feelings of sexual pleasure. Otherwise there would be no payoff. Changing our breath changes the way we experience things, in all areas of life. And regardless of the gender of your partner, keep in mind that your needs, as the "giver" need to be taken into account. This leaves room for you to build the intensity and experience, much like a musician.
This leaves room for you to build the intensity and experience, much like a musician.
You just have a toolbox that you can pull and switch from whenever you choose. If you need him to warn you if he is going to ejaculate so you can change your tactic, then tell him that. People can feel inadequate that they haven't had an orgasm, or feel as if they are not doing it right if their partner didn't have an orgasm. If you remove all the hype around orgasm, you create an environment that facilitates relaxation and enjoyment. Again, listening and paying attention to her response throughout is key.