So be aware of your entire panorama of sexual options and experiment if you feel like it. She can cum from anal penetration alone, so I do it when I want her to cum. Lube is necessary for it to be comfortable on her end and relax. It requires more trust and communication than regular sex, and oftentimes your SO is sacrificing some of their comfort and possibly dignity to give you pleasure. The fucked up part is that I could sense it was actually important to him—like he would be measuring my affection in anal terms—so I bounced out of the relationship for good. As for the raw physical characteristics of tightness and friction, vaginal is better in the long run. Absolutely, definitely, always use water-based lubrication.
I actually prefer that.
Letting Her Play With Your Backside
In this section, we survey men on Reddit on the sensation of having anal sex with a woman. Butt bumping is not as automatic as vaginal so you have to focus on what feels good to you. Is it as good as an apple? But honestly I prefer the usual hole a lot more. Sex shops sell anal toys that are smaller and curved for such occasions. His dick slipped and went in my ass when he was penetrating.